Marriage God's Way

My wife, Christin, and I were blessed to celebrate our tenth anniversary on June 6th of this year.  Marriage is the best relationship on this side of heaven outside our relationship with Christ. The purpose of marriage is simply for it to be a reflection of how Christ loved the church and gave himself up for it. In saying this, one of the best things you can give your kids is a biblical, loving marriage. I grew up in a broken home, and I understand first-hand that our God is a God of restoration and relational healing. As a disclaimer, I would say for those struggling marriage is hard, but if it’s destructive hard, seek wise counsel.

Here are a few lessons I have learned in the past ten years:

1.    Marriage Is a Classroom for Unselfishness

We are made to serve, not to be served. God uses marriage for us to become more like Him. Marriage is not intended for our happiness but for Holiness. Anytime I feel frustrated or impatient, I am reminded I cannot do this in my own strength. We have discovered that when we draw closer to God individually, Christin and I actually get closer to each other. Imagine a triangle with your spouse on one side and you on the other and God at the top. The only way to close the distance is moving closer to God.

2.    Marriage Is Mission-Minded

Christin and I made a commitment to “go and make disciples” for a lifetime together. We don’t believe God put us together to sit and soak. Don’t get me wrong. We have a ton of room to grow, but it has been a blast seeing what the Lord has done through a couple of unschooled ordinaries. My first disciples are my wife and children (1 Timothy 5:8), and then we invest our time in other couples and individuals through small group. If you are not in a small group, you need to be! You need others to care and pray for you as you walk your marriage journey.

3.    Joyful Always, Pray Continually,  Give Thanks in All Circumstances

These words are engraved on both of our original wedding rings. 1 Thessalonians 5:8 spoke loudly to us as we were writing our marriage vows. We live in a culture that says marriage is not a commitment. We have an enemy that is waiting to tear our marriage and family apart. God has used this verse to remind us to be joyful always. True joy is found in the Lord, and life is too short to walk through it miserably.

Pray continually - Always depend upon the Lord not our own strength.

Giving thanks in all circumstances - Being grateful is a weapon against entitlement and discontentment.

To close, I will share some practical application. This advice comes from Marriage in Motion, a book written by Dr. John Hobbs, a colleague and friend.

• Pray every day together – pray about your problems.

• Talk for 30 uninterrupted minutes a day - talk through your problems.

• Go on a date twice a month - get away from your problems. 

26 Inexpensive Things to Do with Your Kids this Summer

When the kids are out of school, it can be a bittersweet time for parents. Lots of fun comes with summer, but the kids' boredom can set in quickly. Parents have a great opportunity during the summer to make lasting memories with their kids while keeping the kids entertained at the same time!

We put together some inexpensive ideas for you and your kids to have some fun together this summer!

1. Local Parks & Playgrounds

    Pack a picnic and head out to a local park!

• Carl Miller Park

• Neighborhood Playgrounds

2. Dollar Movies

Did you know that many movie theaters have dollar movie days/mornings?

Regal Cinemas offers $1 movies on Tuesday and Wednesday mornings throughout the summer. Check their website for specific details. Sit back and enjoy a kids' feature in the air conditioning!

3. Hiking

Put on comfy shoes and head out to explore nature. Make sure you pack extra water and snacks!

• Line Creek Nature Area

• Kennesaw Mountain (Civil War history may interest older kids!)

• Chattahoochee Bend State Park

4. Library

Libraries have lots of resources and fun for kids other than just books. Head over to your local library to find out what they have going on during the week. Sometimes they give free classes and read books to the kids!

5. Go Swimming

Find a friend with a pool or visit your neighborhood pool. Maybe there's a lake that you love to go to as well. Make sure to jump in and enjoying splashing and playing with your kids!

• Lake Lanier - There are many areas within Lake Lanier, so don't feel like you just have to go to the main section!

• Lake Martin

• West Point Lake

6. Make Slime

Find out how to make slime and where to buy materials HERE!

7. Sprinklers or Slip n’ Slide

Sprinklers may not sound thrilling to us as adults, but for kids, it’s the best! Running around with the water falling is great and having a slip n’ slide is even better!

8. Ride Bikes

Riding bikes around the neighborhood is fun, but there are also plenty of places to ride bikes in Peachtree City and at Callaway Gardens!

9. Catch Bugs

Buy a little bug catcher or use a jar and let your kids find crickets, ladybugs, caterpillars, and other fun bugs to watch. Magnifying glasses are available at dollar stores to get a really close view!

10. Play Sports

Playing sports is always a fun time during the summer. Grab a ball or frisbee and get outside! Use stools, hula hoops, or other items to make an obstacle course in your yard. Time each other to see who makes it through the fastest!

11. Make S’mores

S’mores by the fire are so yummy, but did you know that you can also make s’mores in the microwave on those rainy days? Click HERE to find out how!

12. Build a Fort - Blankets or Cardboard Boxes

Building a fort is a classic! If you don't have boxes, place a large blanket over the kitchen table, and everyone can crawl inside. Use flashlights and tell stories or read. Don’t miss out on indoor "camping!"

13. Bake Cookies

Baking and decorating cookies is not only fun for the kids, it’s also beneficial for you! 

14. Pick Berries at a Farm

Head over to a local farm and pick some blueberries or strawberries!

• Whitley Farms

• Adams Farms

15. Water Balloons

Let your kids get outside and fill up some water balloons. Have a water balloon war and see who wins! For older kids, use sidewalk chalk to draw targets with points on the driveway and play water balloon "darts."

16. Finger Painting

The good thing about summer is that you can do so much outside. Grab some paint and old clothes and let the kids use their hands to create art. Let your kids paint with inexpensive household items for cool textures (i.e. toothbrushes, hairbrushes, small brooms, or combs).

17. Sidewalk Chalk

The awesome part about sidewalk chalk is that you can draw over and over again. As soon as that chalk washes away, the kids can draw again! Trace each other on the pavement and create your own chalk "selfies!"

18. Bowling

Bowling alleys often provide special discount offers. Check out your local bowling alley’s website to find a day to go!

19. Music

Turn on some music, play dress up, and get to dancing! Everyone loves a good beat.

20. Sno Cones or Popsicles

Buy a shaved ice maker or just some ice trays with popsicle sticks. Put some soda or juice in the ice trays, put in the popsicle sticks, and in just a few hours, you’ll have refreshing popsicles!

21. Bubbles

Who doesn't love bubbles? Head over to Walmart or the Dollar Store to get a couple of different sizes of bubbles and wands!    

22. Water Color Painting

Get outside or set up a painting table for water color painting. A spray bottle filled with water color paint is also a fun way to paint an old bed sheet or tablecloth. 

23. Picnic

Enjoy an outdoor picnic at a local park or even in your backyard! Let the kids make the sandwiches and help pack up the snacks. Have them take their favorite beach towel or blanket to sit on.

24. Make Tie-Dye Clothes

Learn how to make tie-dye clothes HERE!

25. Decorate Cookies or Cupcakes

Pop some cookie dough or cupcake batter into the oven and get the icing ready! Give each child a container of icing and let them spread it on. Get creative with fun toppings such as brownie pieces, sprinkles, Reese's, M&M's, Skittles, or other small candies.

26. Marble Painting

Get an old or cheap container (foil baking pans work great!), some marbles, a piece of blank paper, and paint. Give one to each kid and have them rock the containers back and forth to make the marbles roll through the paint and create art! Click HERE to see how.

Whatever you choose to do this summer, enjoy spending time together and make lots of sweet memories.

The Father's Table

THE TABLE

I grew up in a rather large family. By “rather large” I mean there were 11 kids. Yes, my parents were crazy enough to have 11 children. And yes, they know about birth control. Seriously though, you would think that by the time the fourth child came along (me) that they would have gotten the hint that we were a strong-willed, rowdy bunch of kids. My dad jokes about the fact that they kept going for the perfect child...He said it’s yet to happen.

As our family grew, our dining room table became more and more crowded. As you can imagine, it takes a large table to host 13 individuals every morning at breakfast. At some point my parents realized the need for a larger table. I guess the alternative was to stop having children, but they were still under the illusion that perfection could be achieved so a larger table it was.

It was October, and the plan for us to purchase the new table was to pick up walnuts as a family. So we packed up in the ole 15-passenger and went for it. We’d drive around and Mom would spot a walnut grove or a tree in someone's yard, so we’d stop and ask the property owners if we could pick up their walnuts. I was embarrassed as a kid because it seemed so desperate. But we did it. We picked up 20,000 lbs of hulled walnuts. We worked in the rain, in the heat, in the fun, in the exhaustion. We didn’t stop until walnut season was over. Our hands became stained, our backs hurt, and we never wanted to see another walnut tree again.

Post walnut season the new table was purchased. It was like Christmas morning at our house, excitement all around! The chairs and benches were newly stained, and the table large enough to host everyone with elbow room to spare. It was ours. The Kent family table. And we each had a place at our new table.

​THE NAME

I love going home to my parents’. The rush of childhood memories is imminent as we pull into the drive. Everything from the smell of pancakes and black Folger’s coffee to the crisp breeze in the air takes me back to early mornings, family devotionals, and movies on Sunday nights. It’s a fresh reminder of who I am: a Kent.

Names have the potential to carry weight with them. There’s power and identity in them. Sometimes we stand on the shoulders of the last generation and build. One generation builds into the next, all with the same identity found in the family name. My family name has meaning and purpose to it. It carries with it the identity of a large family, hard workers, creative individuals, and a commitment to others. We have little choice in the imposition others place on us due to our family name. I am a Kent and proud of it. My parents carried the name well.

Here’s the best part about being a Kent though: I belong at my parents’ table. Let that sink in. I always have a place at my parents’ table. I belong there simply because I am their son. They’ve never made me pay for a spot at their table. I naturally belong there because of who I am and knowing whose I am. I am the son of Bob and Jan Kent.

THE MEAL

My mom is an amazing cook! Growing up I never wondered if she was going to burn our dinner, if breakfast would be awful, or if lunch would be fast food. She always had food prepared for us.

Growing up our table hosted many meals; meals my mom would prepare for us and meals we kids would help prepare. Breakfast and dinner we would gather, as a family around the table, and share a meal together. We would talk about the activities of the day while eating what was before us. Some meals were rushed, others would linger on for hours. This was life. This was our family, sitting around the table, eating, talking, singing, reading, praying, crying, sharing news, and speaking of the future.

As an adult, I love what my parents instilled in me. Family is meant to gather and eat together. Sit. Be in the moment. Wait until everyone is finished. Be present and enjoy the food and the company of those around you.

THE FATHER’S TABLE

I believe our Heavenly Father has a table as well. At this table we, who bear His name, have a place. We gather and share a meal together, with the Father at the head sharing His goodness, mercy, grace, love, peace. There is laughter at the table as the dishes are passed. We share about our day, our brothers and sisters encourage us, and the Father wipes our tears. He invites us to gather around and share with Him all that He has prepared for us. We come together because He has invited us, and we are His.

There are no limits as to who is invited or how many may come. It was not built by us. We did nothing to earn a place. We didn’t pay for the table, the meal, or our name. Our Father made the table. Our Father prepared the meal. Our Father made us His children through His son Jesus. We simply accept the invitation and come.

I like to imagine that our corporate gatherings, “Church,” are His table moments for us here on Earth. We gather because He has invited us. “Hey, come share a meal with Me. Come. Sit. Enjoy what I have prepared for you.” He invites us into a conversation with Him.

“How’s life? What’s been going on? How is the job I gave you? How is the family I have placed around you?” You can almost hear Him saying, “Why didn’t you bring them? They have a place here too.”

We gather around the table, but we often sit there acting like there is nothing set before us worth having. We fail to feast on His goodness, mercy, love, and grace. We act like we already have all we need. We pretend He is not even there. We gather. We sit. We endure the hour and fifteen minutes gathered around the table, and we can’t wait to leave and get back to our lives. And the whole time our Father sits there, excited that His children have come to share in what He has prepared for us.

What would our table moments look like if we came with a proper perspective and healthy expectation? I imagine excitement, joy, laughter, wonder, amazement, and transformation. I imagine a heart of service toward our brother or sister in the row, an understanding that all belong here regardless of (insert whatever your bias is), and an excitement to bring anyone and everyone with us! We gather together, as brothers and sisters, and eagerly wait to see what our Father has prepared. Our expectation becomes one of constantly knowing He will show us more of who He is and who we are in His eyes.

Everything changes when we understand we are sitting at the table of our Father; a Father who prepares the absolute best for His children and desires for us to just sit with Him. He never leaves us hungry but always leaves us wanting more. And in the midst of our apathy, He continually says, “I love you. Are you listening? I love you. I love you for no other reason other than I just love you.”

Has 30 Years Been Worth It?

The church where I have been serving for the past thirty years, Crossroads Baptist Church, just celebrated its 30th anniversary. In 30 years of ministry, there have been a lot of highs, and a lot of lows. You may wonder after all that time if three decades of ministering in the same church has been worth the effort. I say that it is worth every minute. The following letter is why I have kept going for 30 years. It is written by the daughter of a guy who helped me start our church 30 years ago. My buddy passed away a few years ago, but the words penned by his oldest say it all for me. I hope you enjoy what Morgan wrote. I know that Stanton would.

“My parents met at this church.
They learned how to lead at this church.
They built relationships of the deepest impact at this church. 
They were challenged to raise children in scripture at this church. 
I was saved at this church.
I was baptized at this church.
I learned the books of the Bible at this church. 
I learned to memorizes scripture at this church. 
I learned how to worship at this church, and learned that if you ain’t sweating you ain’t worshiping. 
I learned how to pray at this church. 
I learned the value of tithing at this church. 
I met leaders that have changed my life at this church. 
I met my best friends at this church. 
I have been through immense heartbreak and grief at this church. 
I have experienced pain from people at this church. 
I have had to chance to share a story of brokenness at this church. 
I have been able to practice being a servant at this church. 
I am learning how to lead at this church. 
I learned my passion for preschoolers at this church.
I am learning how to better study the Word at this church. 
I am learning the unbelievable need for community and small groups at this church. 
I am learning that people are people, and they sometimes fail you. That’s okay, because faith isn’t people-based but God-based. 
I am learning that the “cool new thing” may not always be the Jesus thing. 
I am learning that people dug a well that I GET to drink from every day. 
I am learning here. I have learned here. I have done things here. I wasn’t even alive 30 years ago, but people who wanted to make a difference were, and they started digging and planting seeds, and studying the Word and building relationships. This campus building we are standing in wasn’t here 30 years ago. The other campuses were far-off dreams that these people digging didn’t even know they had yet.

This church did so much. This church is doing so much. It’s changed my life, shaped my life, has been my life some days. But this church wasn’t built by people in a day. It wasn’t built easily. It wasn’t built without pain and challenge and death and joy and persecution and heartbreak and disagreements and disappointment and people coming in and people walking out and people being called in and people being called out.

This church is me. This church is us. This church is because of Jesus. It’s not this building or that building or dreams or good days or bad days. It is a faithful to calling pastor we have. It’s the elders who stay in the Word and wisdom so as to best make the decisions that represent our church. It’s the people who woke up early to set up in a high school and stayed late to break it down. It’s the people that rocked babies and chased three-year-olds and read little Bible stories to 4th graders. It’s the people who passed the offering buckets every single week down the aisle. It’s the people who lead us to the throne room in worship. It’s the parking lot guys who help us park or greet us with a happy face when we aren’t feeling it. It’s the middle school pastors who gave up their sanity to love on 13-year-olds who are always just so loud. It’s the people who stay with high schoolers and work through their pain and brokenness with them. It’s the people who sit in counseling offices or hospital rooms or funeral homes and showed with their actions that Jesus was still there. It’s the people. It’s relationships. It’s me. It’s you. It’s us. That is this church.

Jesus is good. He has been so good. Jesus is using us. He’s using you and me, and He’s using the broken and the messed up and the crazy and the mundane to build the Church. We get to be a part of this! For 30 years people got to be a part of something that didn’t stop – that isn’t stopping! Jesus is still going. And now I get to dig. I get to start things and be part of things that just maybe will mean something in another 30 years. I get to build relationships with people who might just change the world in 30 years. And it wouldn’t have ever happened without the people who dug for me 30 years ago. They didn’t know who they were digging for. But they dug anyway because the Lord asked them to dig.”

"Tetelestai" It Is Finished, Now Go...

What a glorious few days we experienced this past week celebrating our Resurrected Lord! After seven church services and a huge community outreach event, it’s amazing to think of the thousands of people that were touched and changed by the incredible love displayed for them on the Cross. As hard as it is to believe that Easter Weekend 2019 is finished, every year I’m reminded that while church services may have ended, Easter outfits may be back on their hangers, and Honey Baked Hams may now return to normal prices, the story of the Resurrection is far from over. 

From elementary school through college, I did not enjoy academic subjects involving numbers, formulas, or scientific methods, but I loved learning about all areas of social studies and history. My Bachelor of Arts in History indicates just how serious my pursuit of the subject became. Among other reasons, I continue to love history because of how it contributes to my study of God’s Word and my understanding of the life of Jesus. Historians often hesitate to make broad, subjective claims or conclusions about periods of time from the past, but anyone who has carefully examined the evidence surrounding the period between Good Friday and Resurrection Sunday could easily conclude that those moments represent the most profound three day period ever recorded in human history. A man that suffered a humiliating public death at the hands of His own people was nowhere to be found just a handful of hours later, and his body hasn’t been located since. Many claim to have seen him alive, spending a brief amount of time on Earth with his disciples before leaving for his rightful place in Heaven. A profound sequence of events to say the least. In the midst of this unthinkable story, Jesus provides us with possibly the most profound statement ever spoken by a human being, and only he had the power to say it. As he surrendered His spirit to death on the cross, Jesus uttered a single word that altered the course of human history and countless lives for eternity:

“Tetelestai,” literally translated in Greek

to mean “it is finished.”

Tetelestai comes from the verb teleo, which means "to bring to an end, to complete, to accomplish." It is a crucial word because it signifies the successful end to a particular course of action. As Dr. Ray Pritchard says, “It's the word you would use when you climb to the peak of Mount Everest; it's the word you would use when you turn in the final copy of your dissertation; it's the word you would use when you make the final payment on your new car; it's the word you use when you cross the finish line of your first 10K run. The word means more than just ‘I survived.’ It means, ‘I did exactly what I set out to do.’”

But the significance is much greater than just the word itself. Tetelestai is in the perfect verb tense in Greek. That’s significant because the perfect tense speaks of an action which has been completed in the past, but whose results continue into the present. It's different from the past tense which looks back to an event and says, "This happened." The perfect tense adds the idea that “This happened, and continues to happen today.”

Jesus died for all the sins of mankind, past, present, and future, but Jesus’ intentional choice of word, “Tetelestai - It Is Finished” really means that Jesus is just getting started. The story of the Resurrection has continued ever since. Jesus has huge plans for the lives of those who choose to believe in him. His command is clear for the redeemed to now go and make disciples of all nations. His redemptive work on the Cross is now the launching pad for disciples to spread the good news of the Gospel with the confident hope that the finished work is still working, alive and active and prepared to rescue all who confess and believe. 

History really is HIS-STORY isn’t it?

This week, what will you do to share the finished and continuously fresh work of God?

Remember Those Who Dug the Well

I’m amazed at what God has been doing the last 30 years in and through a group of people known as Crossroads Church. From a tiny core group praying for direction to a multi-campus, disciple-making network of churches living out the Great Commandment and the Great Commission. I find myself amazed by where we’ve come from and filled with anticipation for what lies ahead. I can’t count the number of times that I have heard Ken Adams say, “Those who drink the water must remember those who dug the well.”  I just love this quote. It is so true. If we are not careful we can become comfortable where we are and take for granted all that has been built on hard work, sacrifice, faithfulness, and utter dependence on God. Our God is truly an awesome God!

I am thankful for that core group that met in schools. Every week was a labor of love…love for a community that needed to Experience God and Connect with Christ and His Church. Every week was a sacrificial offering….sacrifice of time (setting up and tearing down takes time), energy (setting up and tearing down is not easy), resources (cribs, furnishings and equipment aren’t cheap). Every week was a challenge…a challenge met with faithfulness, dedication and determination. Meeting in schools wasn’t easy, but, the payoff, the fruit was exponential. It is from this group that we have grown into the church we are today. Almost 4000 people have been baptized. We have given almost $4 million to missions, and 13 new churches have been started. Each of those congregations have drank from that well. Isn’t that amazing!?!

As we look to our future we must pause with gratitude for those who “dug the wells” over the years at Crossroads. We must also pause to ask ourselves a question - “Where is God leading me to dig a well?”  With each new campus, church plant, ministry initiative there is a well to be dug. It will take sacrifice, resources and surely be a labor of love. As we looked back during the Anniversary service, my mind was taken to a school a few miles down the road where we are digging a well to reach the community of Senoia. I could see families, gathering to worship, kids and parents being baptized, students leading out in their schools, young adults surrendering to full-time ministry. The same God that led Palmetto Baptist Church to reach the people of Coweta County 30 years ago is leading us to reach the people of Senoia.

Can you imagine what would happen if we began to dig with the same sacrifice, faithfulness, determination and dependence on God that the core group had 30 years ago? I believe we would see two things happen:

• God will do far more than we could ask or imagine!
  

  Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21
  

• We will see revival sweep our community and beyond!
  

  They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. Acts 2:42-47

Let’s put on our work clothes and get digging. It’s time to help someone else encounter the living water of Christ.

Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” John 4:13-14

The Value of Recreation Ministries

The Church has utilized many ministry strategies to reach people for Christ throughout history: hospitals, schools, dramatic arts, music, dance etc., but sports ministries have a few distinct advantages over other worthy endeavors. 

1. Relevance

Sports activities and sports facilities attract people and translate to any community. There’s just something about seeing men running up and down a basketball court playing pick-up games, young adults running and jumping while playing ultimate Frisbee, women "digging" and "spiking" volleyballs, or families cheering for their kids as they kick up dust on a baseball field. Recreation and sports attract a wide range of people, and because of this, they have the unique ability to draw in people who have no church connection.

2. Long Term Approach

Recreation ministries provide a natural “back door” activity that give church members an opportunity to invite friends, families, and co-workers. Whereas, many people are not receptive to invitations to a church service, they are very open to playing a basketball pick-up game or signing their child up for a baseball league. Furthermore, it provides a continual opportunity for relationships to develop and deepen because practices and games occur at least once a week for months at a time. Most church outreaches last a couple of hours, one day or perhaps, or on the rare occasion, one week. Sports activities keep people involved for months to even years which greatly encourages successful long term relationship building and outreach. 

3. Built-In Accelerators 

The accelerator of relationships is crucial to the overall goal of reaching and discipling those who don’t yet have a relationship with God. It’s very hard to share the gospel with someone you have no relationship with. Sports create a unique opportunity to build trust and accelerate the relational process through teamwork. Sports ministries also have the ability to accelerate the process of communicating faith. Sporting analogies, metaphors and experiences provide unique, insightful and relevant ways to communicate a personal and growing relationship with Christ. 

Recreation and sports are a unique tool to bridge the Church to communities for the purpose of leading people into a personal and growing relationship with Jesus Christ. Have sports and recreation been a positive influence in your life? Share in the comments!

Go Outside!

The official first day of Spring is this week, so hopefully, consistent warmer weather will be here soon. Along with the change in weather, Spring usually brings a sense of new beginnings and growth. There’s just something refreshing about this season.

Like bears hibernating in Winter, Spring presents a wonderful opportunity for us to get out of our “caves.” God created a beautiful, amazing world for us to enjoy. I believe experiencing God’s creation first-hand encourages us to praise God and understand just how magnificent He is. It’s impossible to feel like God’s equal when you see yourself in comparison to His works.

Psalm 104:24 - Oh Lord, how manifold are you works! In wisdom have you made them all; the earth is full of your creatures.

Being outside also has health benefits, both physical and mental. Just being outside on a sunny day can lower blood pressure, boost the immune system, and improve sleep. Slowing down to enjoy the sounds and smells of nature is therapeutic to fight anxiety and stress and boost creativity. Best of all, sunshine and fresh air are a free gift from God!

All people, young and old, can benefit from being outside. I’ve listed ten inexpensive or free suggestions for you to try this Spring. Whichever ones you choose, remember to take time to thank God for His stunning creation.

10 Outdoor Activities

1. Picnic in a local park

2. Hike a nature trail

3. Create a flower bed or a vignette with pots

4. Visit a historic battle field or reserve

5. Walk around your neighborhood

6. Read a book on your back porch

7. Enjoy coffee at a cafe with outdoor seating

8. Take a stroll at an outdoor shopping center

9. Check out a local farmer’s market

10. Take a bike ride

So what outdoor activities do you enjoy? Share your favorites in the comments! Let’s encourage each other to go outside!

The Disciple-Making Dentist

Last night, I had an awesome experience. I went to a dental office for a discipleship group. Yes, you heard me right: I went to a dental office for a discipleship group. I did not go to a church, a house, or a restaurant. I went to a place where they work on teeth! In thirty years of ministry, this is the first time I have ever sat in a discipleship group meeting in a dental office. It was beautiful.

A dentist who attends the church where I pastor has taken the mission of making disciples seriously. He has decided to be obedient to Christ’s command to “make disciples.” He has eliminated a multitude of excuses and obeyed Christ’s command. Here are a few observations and thoughts from my experience with a disciple-making dentist.

Anyone Can Make Disciples! 

My dentist friend has only been a Christian for a few years, and he will tell you that he has had his ups and downs in disciple-making. He will also tell you that he is growing and trying his best to obey what Jesus commanded two-thousand years ago. Similar to a guy named Peter, my dentist friend is not letting his past mistakes be excuses for his present obedience. 

Disciples Can Be Made Anywhere! 

My dentist friend is not waiting for the perfect setting to make disciples. Actually, he has found the perfect setting for him. He is using the resources God has given him, and he is making disciples in his market place. Imagine what could happen if disciple-making left church buildings and ventured out into dentist offices, doctor offices, classrooms, fitness centers, and office complexes.

Anybody Can Be a Disciple! 

The discipleship group meeting in this dentist’s office was not what I expected. It was a mixture of men. They were different ages, races, and professions. They were all at different levels of spiritual growth as well. They had one thing in common: they all had a desire and hunger to grow. Desire is all that you really need to start making disciples. We will see what God is going to produce from this rag-tag group of guys.

I love seeing people make disciples, and I love hearing stories of disciple-makers. If you have story to share please share it with us in the comments!

Kickstart Your Spring Cleaning

Whenever Spring comes, it just feels like it’s time for a refresh! With everything going on in life, it can be difficult to get motivated when it comes to Spring cleaning. But in the end, it’s so helpful to clean up the home and get things in order again.

There are a few ways to kickstart your spring cleaning this year that we think you should know.

Get Motivated

To get motivated about Spring cleaning, you have to think of your why. Why do you want to do Spring cleaning? Is it because you want your household back in order? Is it because you need to get rid of things? Or maybe it’s just been a long time since you’ve done a good cleaning!

Whatever the why is, remind yourself of it and this will motivate you.

Include the Family

There’s no need to take on this task on your own! Be sure to make a good list of what needs to be done for your Spring cleaning and share that list with your family. If they don’t know, they can’t help!

Maybe have each person put their name next to tasks on the list in different colors. Set a date to finish all of the Spring cleaning tasks and then be sure to have a celebration at the end! You deserve to celebrate together after all of your hard work.

Declutter

One of the main ways to get things back in order is to just declutter. Many times our mess isn’t necessarily dirty, it’s just a bunch of stuff. Gather together things like clothes, papers, toys, etc. and put them into categories in each room. Figure out what you need and what you don’t need.

Get Rid of It

After you declutter, you may want to get rid of a bunch of things! When in doubt, you probably don’t need it, so just get rid of it! If you haven’t seen Tidying Up on Netflix yet you won’t fully understand this concept, but the host always says that if the item doesn’t “spark joy” for you, then it’s time to say goodbye!

Did you know that Crossroads has a thrift store? Any items that you’re saying goodbye to can be donated to reNew Thrift!

Organize

AFTER you’ve decluttered and gotten rid of things, it’s time to take what you have left and get organized. What is Spring cleaning without some organization? Everything should have a place. Place your items by category and fit them into stylish boxes to keep out or in storage boxes for the closet or garage.

Papers are probably the most annoying to organize. But did you know that you don’t have to hold on to your receipts forever anymore? Click HERE to find a guide from Dave Ramsey on what papers to keep and what papers to shred.

Deep Clean

Now that you’ve got everything in order, it’s time to do your deep clean. This is when the floors get swept, the kitchen and bathrooms scrubbed, etc. After doing all of your decluttering and organizing, this part should be a breeze!

After you finish your Spring cleaning, your home will feel so refreshed! Breathe easy this Spring and just get it over with. Get your home back in order so that you don’t have to stress about going home to a mess.

Find a Spring cleaning checklist HERE!

Build Your Biblical Vocabulary

Have you ever listened to a sermon or Bible study and the speaker used a word that just flew over your head? I have! Sometimes big “church” words can be intimidating. It’s easy to just nod your head and act like it makes perfect sense, but some of these words pop up repeatedly around the church in messages, studies, or even songs. I think it’s important to understand their meanings. If you don’t, you risk not fully grasping what the scripture or lesson is teaching.

I have a confession. I love words. I know it sounds nerdy, but I’m an English teacher’s dream when it comes to definitions, pronunciation, and context. I get frustrated when I read or hear words, and I don’t understand their meanings. This is especially true when it comes to the Bible and theological (study of religion) terms.

It’s easy to look up definitions quickly now that we all carry smart phones or tablets with us wherever we go. However, I’ve compiled a short list of commonly used theological words with basic definitions and sentences. You may want to study more to find deeper meaning.

5 Theological Terms to Know

1. Atonement - compensation or payment for sin

When Jesus died on the cross, he made atonement for our sins.

2. Inerrant - incapable of being wrong

The Bible is the inerrant Word of God.

3. Reconciliation - the restoration of relationship; repair of a broken relationship 

We are reconciled with God through the death of His Son, Jesus.

4. Redemption - saved from sin, error, or evil; to buy out as if purchasing a slave’s freedom

Because of Christ’s redemption, we are free from the bondage of sin. 

5. Sovereign - possessing supreme or ultimate power

Our sovereign God has authority over all things, and nothing is impossible for Him.

For deeper understanding, don’t be afraid to ask a pastor or leader to explain confusing words or concepts. God wants us to study and learn more about Him and His Word. The more we know, the stronger our faith grows.​

Abundant Life Always Works

Today I ate lunch with a couple of fellow ministers that were both asking the question, “What is wrong with the Church?” Both men care deeply about Christ’s Church and our effectiveness in making disciples. We had a good robust debate about what is working and what is not working in the Church today.

As I engaged in the conversation at lunch, my mind kept going back to the Church in Acts. The Church described in Acts 2:42-47 worked! It was a place where people wanted to be. It was a place where disciples were being made. It was a place where people were coming to Christ and growing in Christ. It was a place where people were experiencing the abundant life that Christ offers.

The Acts 2 Church is described as a large group of people who were “devoted.” They are also described as a place where people “were praising God and having favor with all people.” Church was fun. They were experiencing the abundant life Christ offered. They loved the music. They loved the teaching. They loved the fellowship. They loved serving and giving to each other. They loved inviting new people to join them. They loved these things because they loved God and they loved others.

Please understand that I am not saying the abundant life is an easy life. In fact, the abundant life might even come with more problems and difficulties. I am saying however, that the abundant life is a life that allows you to rise above the circumstances and problems of this world. The abundant life is a life that can only come through knowing Jesus. Jesus even told us that He has come to “give us life and life more abundantly.” The abundant life is a life overflowing because you have Christ living on the inside.

Christians and churches are dispensers of abundant life. We help connect people to Jesus, and He gives them life and life more abundantly. Abundant life always works. People will always want to have a life that is more full than empty. People will always want a life that is overflowing rather than dry. Our job is simply this: to connect people to Jesus so that they can have abundant life. We can’t give them abundant life, only Jesus can. We can lead them to Jesus.

To be honest, I wrote this blog for me. I needed to write what I was thinking after my lunch conversation. If it helped you, that is even better. I just needed to be reminded that my job as a pastor is to help people find abundant life. Life that is overflowing, not begrudging.

11 Local Date Night Ideas

As married couples, we should always be making date nights a priority, but for some reason, holidays, birthdays, and special events make us more aware and more excited about having a date night!

If you’re in need of a date night or you don’t have plans yet for the next special occasion, try out some of these date night ideas. It doesn't matter where you go, just enjoy spending time together!

1. Atlanta Attractions

SkyView Atlanta

SkyView Atlanta is a huge ferris wheel next to Centennial Olympic Park. From the top of this ferris wheel, you get a great view of the city of Atlanta.

Georgia Aquarium

The Georgia Aquarium is such a great experience! Walk through a tunnel under a huge aquarium filled with various fish and whale sharks. Plus, you can pop up into the middle of the home of the penguins.

Atlanta Zoo

Zoos are always a great date idea. Check out all of the animals at the Atlanta Zoo with your sweetheart!

Six Flags Over Georgia

My husband and I love going to Six Flags! Check out their website to find special events going on at the park.

Lake Lanier

Lake Lanier is not just a lake…They have water slides and lots of activities! Whether you want to relax on the beach or be active, this is a great spot for a date.

See Rock City

Although Rock City is a couple of hours away from Atlanta, this destination is worth the trek! You can hike through Rock City to see great views, and nearby, you can go way under to see Ruby Falls.

Find out more about Rock City HERE!

2. Tours

Fernbank Museum of Natural History

Fernbank Museum is fun to explore, especially because of its huge dinosaur display!

Chick-Fil-A Corporate Office

Touring the Chick-Fil-A Corporate Office may not sound thrilling, but it is a great experience! If you love CFA (like me!), you’ll be amazed at their corporate office.

World of Coca-Cola

At the World of Coca-Cola, you can see their quick production line and even try sodas from all around the world!

3. Markets

Ponce City Market

Ponce City Market isn’t a typical market, but it is a local favorite! Ponce is fun for trying various coffees and foods, going shopping, and getting a nice view of Atlanta.

Find out more about Ponce City Market HERE!

Krog Street Market

Krog Street Market offers a variety of vendors!

Dekalb Farmers’ Market

The Dekalb Farmers’ Market is very unique. This market is represented by so many countries. You’ll find a ton of cultural foods here for great prices.

Local Markets

Find your local market to try out on the weekends!

4. Gardens

Atlanta Botanical Gardens

The Atlanta Botanical Gardens has so many different sections and types of plants to see.

Callaway Gardens

At Callaway Gardens, you can walk around to see the landscaping, but you can also bike the trails or even hang out by the lake!

5. Coffee Shops

Try having a nice simple date at a nearby local coffee shop!

• Leaf & Bean

• Blume Organics

• Station Coffeehouse

• Revelator Coffee

• Condesa Coffee

OR go to a coffee tasting at Counter Culture in Atlanta!

6. Art Class

Candlefish

At Candlefish in Ponce City Market, you can learn how to make candles together!

Atlanta Clay Works

Learn how to make pottery at Atlanta Clay Works!

BE! Creative Arts Center

Create a couple of nice paintings together at the BE! Creative Arts Center!

7. Sports & Games

Top Golf

Ladies, we may not be huge fans of golf, but we know our guys love it. Top Golf is more than just golf! You can hang out and play in a more exciting atmosphere.

Escape Room

What’s more romantic than being locked in a terrifying room and trying to escape?? Go to an escape room in Atlanta!

Biking at Callaway Gardens

If you like to bike, biking through Callaway Gardens is a beautiful ride!

Biking at the Beltline

While biking through the Beltline, you’ll get to go on trails around Atlanta and make fun stops along the way!

Putt Putt at Ponce City Market

Playing Putt Putt at Ponce City Market is more than just putt putt. You get to go on the rooftop to play and hang out looking over the Atlanta Skyline!

8. Outdoors

Are you and your date adventurous? Try exploring outdoors!

• Cochran Mill

• Camping at Lake Blue Ridge

• Whitewater Rafting in Columbus

9. Explore a Different Town

Helen

Try visiting the Alpine town of Helen.

Find out more about Helen HERE!

Dahlonega

If you’re looking for a relaxed and cute town to explore, visit Dahlonega!

Senoia

Senoia is home of the “Walking Dead” tv show! It’s a super small and cute town to hang out at for the day, especially if you’re a “Walking Dead” fan.

Columbus

In Columbus, you’ll find a variety of coffee shops and restaurants as well as a nice walk along the river!

Warm Springs

Warm Springs is a small historical town that is easy to explore. There are trails nearby and small shops in the downtown area.

10. Festivals

Hummingbird Festival

The Hummingbird Festival is located in Hogansville. Lots of local food and handmade gift vendors come out during this festival.

Hot Air Balloon Festival

Check out a hot air balloon festival in Helen, Fayetteville, or in Pine Mountain at Callaway Gardens!

Flying Colors Butterfly Festival

Head over to the Chattahoochee Nature Center to see the Flying Colors Butterfly Festival.

Atlanta Dogwood Festival

Go to Piedmont Park in Atlanta to check out the Dogwood Festival. Experience art, music, and local vendors!

Taste of Atlanta

Try out local Atlanta restaurants all at once at the Taste of Atlanta! You may buy tickets and use them to purchase “tastes” of different foods.

11. Hiking & Nature Areas

There are so many hiking opportunities throughout Georgia! Check out any of these nature areas to get outdoors with your date.

• Mount Yonah – More Difficult, 4.4 miles round trip

• Chattahoochee Bend State Park – Moderate, 10 miles round trip

• Line Creek Nature Area – Easy, about 4 miles round trip

• Stone Mountain – More difficult, 2.1 miles round trip

• Pine Mountain Trail – Moderate, 4.5 round trip

• Tallulah Gorge State Park

• Desoto Falls Trail – Easy, 2.2 miles round trip

• Dukes Creek Falls Trail – Moderate, 2 miles round trip

• Anna Ruby Falls Trail – Paved, .9 miles round trip

• Panther Creek Falls – More Difficult, 6.9 miles round trip

• Blood Mountain – Most Difficult, 6 miles round trip

• Red Top Mountain – Moderate, 5.3 miles round trip

• Silver Comet Trail – Paved, 1-40+ miles round trip

Why Is Marriage So Tough?

Marriage is the most mysterious relationship two human beings will ever know. It can be the most wonderful, exciting, fulfilling, life-giving, meaningful experience a person could ever have. And, it can be the most painful, exhausting, miserable, draining, frustrating experience anyone could imagine. I once heard someone say, “Marriage is the most perfect picture of heaven and hell we will know this side of eternity.” Some might think this is a bit over dramatic, but I agree with it completely.

Why does this particular relationship have such awesome potential for heavenly ecstasy and hellish agony? The answer is at least partially found in the unique covenant that binds the two participants. No other human relationship is defined by the words “till death do us part.”

For instance, when two friends get tired of each other’s company, one or the other can leave. If the friendship continues to deteriorate, it can be dissolved immediately by one or both of the parties. When a person becomes frustrated with a boss or co-worker, he can always tender his resignation. A teacher and her pupil only have to endure each other’s company for so long before the semester mercifully ends. Good Christian people, who find themselves sitting on a pew every week with someone they believe even Jesus wouldn’t like, can always find a new congregation in which to worship. The home of origin is a little more difficult because it lasts longer, but even in family relationships there is a light at the end of the tunnel called high school graduation. Marriage is the only human relationship designed to last forever.       

The binding covenant is not the only factor that makes wedded bliss difficult. Usually the two individuals involved are as different as they can be. Take the two very different genders, male and female, and place them together. Already there is potential for disaster. In most cases this male and female have completely opposite personality types. Seldom have the couple been raised in similar families or taught compatible beliefs. Each person enters into this new relationship with unbelievable and unrealistic expectations that seem completely feasible in his/her own eyes. Neither of them may have had any training in anger management, communication skills or conflict resolution, and most have no experience or understanding when it comes to financial matters. To make it worse, probably in most cases neither of them had very good role models growing up. They may have a limited support system to turn to if things deteriorate. 

One would think that Christian couples, having a common bond in Christ, would find married life easier to navigate. However, most statistics don’t support that conclusion. Being a believer, and even being raised in the church, do not seem to be enough to create a happy, healthy marriage. These Christian couples face the same struggles as those who have not accepted Christ, and their belief system alone does not give them the marital direction that couples so desperately need to survive and thrive. The church, while all along insisting that divorce is wrong, has not done a very good job training couples to live a lifetime together.

Marriages are constantly changing. Like riding a bicycle, it is impossible to just sit still. People are either going forward, or they are going backward. Marriages are either getting better, or they are getting worse. They never remain the same. What are we doing to help our marriages move forward toward what God intends them to be?

Managing Your Money

A couple of years ago, our staff was getting ready to go through the Financial Peace University class together. My mom was leading the class and wanted me to go, but I really didn’t want to go because I didn’t see the point in it for me. I was only twenty years old at the time with no debt and no mortgage payment, so I thought that the class didn’t really apply to my life. I thought it would be a waste of time, but I went anyways… Every week, they would ask what our takeaway was from the class, and I usually felt like I didn’t learn anything. I knew the principles, but I just wasn’t applying them.

In the last week of the class, Dave Ramsey talks about how if you live differently than everyone now, one day you’ll be able to live and give differently than everyone else in the future. I started thinking about all of the things that I would like to accomplish one day…like supporting missionaries, giving more to the church, traveling…and it really made me think about that statement. The choices that I’m making now are affecting my future and whether or not those things will actually be a reality for me one day.

From then on I really just surrendered my finances to God and decided that I wanted to start managing my money in a way that honors Him. I’ve worked very hard to save. I’m saving for a down payment on a house, investing into retirement, and giving more. I’ve even been able to just take my friends out and do fun things without having to worry about living paycheck to paycheck.

It’s definitely hard to manage your money well if you’ve had bad spending habits in the past. I used to go out and spend money randomly, especially on clothes, name brand things, and going out to eat with my friends. But it’s a shift in your mindset to understand how the money that you’re spending now could be used for something better in the future. It takes fighting against instant gratification and knowing that it may not be worth it, knowing that it could be used better in another way. It just took committing to God that I want to manage my money better for Him, and if I have to say no to things, then that’s what I’ll have to do.

My mom definitely helped me by holding me accountable and has steered me in the right direction by opening my eyes to saving for retirement and other things that will be beneficial to my future. I also started meeting with a financial advisor. He helps me understand what investments to make and in a way that will glorify God. He helps people realize things that we can invest our money in as Christians to honor God that will be a good investment as well.

If you’re younger, it’s never too early to start managing your money in a way that honors God, but it’s also never too late. We all have a future that we hope to have, and there’s things that we want to be able to do. But it’s really the choices that we make now that determine whether or not those things will be a reality.

5 Tips for Managing Your Body

As we enter this new year we are given a chance for a fresh start. A clean slate. We are offered a second chance to honor God with the wonderful gift He has given us: our bodies. Need a little help to get started? Here are 5 tips for managing your body this new year.

1.     Understand Your Body Belongs to God

Our culture teaches us, that our bodies are our own to do whatever we want with. However, since humanity is God’s crowning creation, made in His image, we all rightfully belong to Him and must someday give an account to Him for our lives. Colossians 1:16 says, “All things have been created through Him and for Him.” Because our entire being was made for Him, He has the right to dictate how we are to use our bodies—whether we acknowledge His authority or not. When you begin to understand that your body is not your own, you will start down a path towards better health.

2.     Set Specific and Realistic Goals and Write Them Down

Let’s break this down into two parts. Far too often we set goals that are just simply not realistic, which leaves us discouraged when we fail to achieve them. It is so important to set goals that are thought out and very specific/measurable so that you have tangible evidence of progress as you journey your way to your health goals. Remember to write down your goals and refer to them frequently. This helps to plan what you need to do to achieve them as well as to provide a constant reminder to stick to your plan.

3.     Go Outdoors to Make Exercise Easier

Working out doesn’t always have to feel like working out. By finding a hobby like running, biking, hiking, or walking, you can very effectively be on your way to a new healthier you. Taking your workout outside allows you to burn calories, while having a good time. 

4.     Don’t Do It Alone

Many of us find it hard to stay motivated, eat better, or exercise more. We know we need to, but we put it off for tomorrow, or next week, or longer. It's hard to hold yourself accountable. Having a workout partner makes it more fun, so you’re more likely to stick to a routine which ultimately leads to better results. Since another person’s schedule is involved, you will probably plan your workouts in advance and will encourage each other to be there. Being there for someone else adds extra motivation to be consistent.

5.     Don’t Do Anything Drastic

Far too often when we start something new, especially when it pertains to our health, the tendency is to make drastic changes. This is because we all want a quick fix especially when we live in world that promises instant solutions. Unfortunately, these crash diets or intense workout routines are typically only sustainable for a short time and usually the weight lost comes back quickly two times over. It is important to learn the art of delayed gratification. Make gradual, small, sustainable changes. Some examples of this are cutting out breads instead of cutting out all sugars. Begin by working out moderately three times per week instead doing high intensity training for six days. The key is that there is no magic pill. You will see results from listening to your body and making consistent sustainable decisions.

Face Time

In today’s world, there are a lot of different things that try to take our time. Every day is filled with the day-to-day activities, plus other cultural norms such as TV, games, movies, social media, shopping, etc. With so many things trying to take our time from us, we have to remember the most important ways to use our time, not just the many ways we can use our time.

While on a run the other day, I listened to a great podcast by Pastor John Ortberg. His message was about controlling technology in our lives, and he made a comment (not a direct quote) that we need more face to face time with God in our lives and less Facebook time in our lives.

Can you relate to Pastor John’s statement? I sure can. I see the subtle trap that technology has in my life and in the lives of others. If we spend more time looking at Facebook than we do seeking the face of God, why are we surprised when we don’t seem as close to God or sense Him working in our lives?

I think we need to take a tip from Moses. Exodus 33:11 says, “Thus the Lord used to speak to Moses face to face, as a man speaks to his friend…” Moses had plenty of social connections, but the most important connection he had was with God. The time Moses spent in the presence of God changed the way he related to everyone else in his life.

There isn’t anything wrong with being on social media as long as it does not keep you from spending plenty of time with God.

One practice I have tried to live by for years is to make the first connection of my day with God rather than with the world. So before checking email - or checking Facebook or Twitter - check in with God. Seek God’s face through prayer and the Word before you seek the latest post in your news feed. You’ll be glad you did!

Equip Me According to Your Word

The start of a new year brings so many mixed emotions. From excitement and anticipation, to renewed hopes and goals, to relief and renewal. So many of us set out to accomplish new goals; long-term and short-term at the start of the year. We quickly jump on the band-wagon of “New Year, New Me” by setting fitness goals, spiritual renewals, and personal mantras.

However, somewhere in between we tend to lose them, the excitement of a fresh start quickly turns into survival mode or worse, disappointment… We start to miss the day-in and day-out excitement that we first had at the beginning of the year.

I noticed this a few years back in my own life so I started approach the New Year differently. What if I chose a word for the year? What if this word could help me accomplish all of those fitness goals, spiritual renewals, and personal mantras I had made? What if this word helped me regain my perspective and helped me refocus?

This past year I chose the word “Equipped: to be supplied with all the necessary equipment.” Setting out at the beginning of 2018, I was not sure what kind of meaning this word would take. You see there have been times in my life where I have not felt prepared, especially in this stage of my life as a twenty-something… As I have read, prayed, and pressed into this word, I now believe that when the Apostle Paul went on to say that may the people be EQUIPPED he meant a resounding blessing not just for them, but for you and me.

I don’t know what kind of load you are carrying. I don’t know what kind of year lies ahead for you or what year you’ve had, but I do know that with whatever happens you can walk into the New year with confidence knowing that you are EQUIPPED to walk through it, that you have been supplied with ALL the necessary equipment to face a new day, to face this new year. Time and time again throughout 2018 this was proven to be true, this word has shown me its meaning in more ways than one.

The words we speak to others and the words we speak to ourselves hold immense power. Throughout scripture we are reminded of the power of our words. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that death and life are in the power of the tongue. James 3:5 tells us that although our tongues may seem small, our words can speak big things. 

I have not yet settled on a word for 2019, but I am excited and expectant to see how God will use that chosen word to renew my thoughts and revive my spirit. I encourage you to choose a word for the year and see just how it takes on its meaning.

Praying that you would be equipped according to HIS word and would enter 2019 with great joy and a sense of refreshment... Happy New Year, my friends!

See Christmas Like a Child

Children are messy. Their tiny chubby fingers leave fingerprints everywhere. They spill, leave crumbs, break things, and generally leave rooms in disarray when they leave. Children can be loud, and they ask lots and lots of questions.

Children are also curious and filled with wonder. Their imaginations soar. They wrap their little arms around you and give hugs with all their might. They laugh and share their contagious smiles. Children do exactly what children were made to do.

Kids trust and when they have faith in something, they believe big. God created them that way, and in His Word, He tells us to be like children when it comes to faith. In the book of Mark (and Luke), we read about a day when parents were bringing their children to Jesus. The disciples were sending the children away, but Jesus rebuked them and instructed them to let the children come.

Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like this child shall not enter it. And he took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them. Mark 10:15, 16

Jesus understood the hearts and faith of children. From this account, I believe we can see the “fun” side of Jesus. I imagine he laughed with the children and answered their questions. He may have told jokes and played tag. Think about it…What children are drawn to stuffy, serious adults?

Christmas is an especially great time to be a tyke. They can be excited, wild, and crazy and not care one bit about what other people think. They go “all in” to celebrate. For many years, I taught preschoolers, and hosted a birthday party for Jesus each Christmas. Every year the lively class of kids sang “Happy Birthday” with all of their hearts as if Jesus was sitting at the table. These lively preschoolers wore party hats and eagerly tooted horns to celebrate.

This Christmas, let’s try to be more like children: be messy, give hugs, laugh, and share smiles. Be filled with wonder as you remember the reason for Christmas and go “all in.” Let’s see Jesus as the guest of honor at every table and remember to celebrate with all of our hearts. Tooting horns is optional!​

A Sweet Celebration

The holiday season can be full of so much excitement, joy, and…food! Growing up my fondest Christmas memories were spent gathered in the kitchen with whisks in hand, the smell of fresh-baked cookies overflowing into every room of the house, and cousins catching up with one another over a cup of hot chocolate at my grandma’s house. No matter what happened from one year to the next, my cousins and I could always count on this tradition.

You see, the act of baking the cookies brought us all together, but it was much more than that. It was the laughs in between; it was the sharing of the baked goods with friends and neighbors; it was the passing of recipes between generations to generation, and it was the overall feeling of being united and at home no matter the distance that separated us throughout the year.

Being a baker and reflecting on Christmas I have always found it interesting that Jesus used bread, a simple and straightforward baked good, to describe Himself. He could have used anything, yet he used bread?!

Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst.” – John 6:35

It makes sense that Jesus would use something as simple as bread to describe Himself. You see, bread is full of leavening agents - ingredients used to make things rise. As Christ was raised, so are those that believe in Christ. Baked goods have a way of uplifting people’s spirits; they have a way of bringing people together; they have a way of making you feel full and at home. Jesus said, “I am the bread of life…” In Him we are raised to life, in Him we feel that joy, in Him we are complete, and in Him we find our home. THIS is WHO and WHY we celebrate Christmas. 

So whether you are a grade A baker or the best taste-tester, I encourage you to gather with your friends and family, invite your coworkers or neighbors, reach out to someone who may have difficulty finding the joy in the holidays, and partake in the sweet celebration of the birth of our Savior this Christmas! 

Here are some ideas this Christmas season as you gather at the table…

Host a Christmas Cookie Bake!

Invite your friends and family over and bake/decorate Christmas cookies. Even if people do not like to bake, I am sure they love to eat cookies! Plus if you have any extras, Crossroads Church will be collecting baked goods during the Christmas Eve Services.

Deliver Baked Goods!

You may not be too comfortable baking in the kitchen, but did you know Crossroads Church needs volunteers to deliver baked goods to Coweta’s First Responders during Christmas Eve. Who knew that a simple act could be so sweet?! (pun totally intended!)

Share Your Favorite Recipes!

I love seeing people share family recipes and traditions. Between personal preferences, cultural practices/techniques, to simple delights, we can learn so much just through the sharing of food.

From my kitchen to your table, Merry Christmas, my friends!